AWESOME GIFTS FOR YOUR NIGERIAN LADY 3

Is she still having doubts? Do you feel the previous gift options are not magical enough? Then, relax and read on.

2 – MONEY. Money makes the world go round or so they say.

For most Naija ladies, money is the spice of a true and stable relationship. Almost every Naija girl dreams of having or aspires to have a wealthy and generous man in her life. Ladies have needs and a stuffed animal or an expensive bracelet, though adorable and memorable, would not pay her bills or solve most of the problems she is not bothering you with.

Besides, your Naija girl understands that you have a tight schedule and might not be willing to go on that vacation with her, that you have a lot on your mind and might have run out of gift options for that special occasion. So, if you don’t know what to buy or cannot accompany her on that trip, it’s okay. Simply MONETIZE IT.

 We  love credit alerts eh, lol! So just call and say; "baby I just credited your account" or simply leave an envelope of crispy notes of any currency on the dresser or table before leaving the house and make your lady love you more.

1 – THE RING OPTION. He went down on one knee and asked me to marry him! Janey screamed into the phone while staring with open admiration at the glittering engagement ring on her finger.

That is the perfect gift and the dream of all the ladies I interviewed.

After six months of constant loving, flaunting and dating, your Naija lady starts expecting only one gift from you on that special day of her life; an engagement Ring. She might not openly reveal her desires, but she sincerely expects that you would do the needful.

Most of the ladies did not fancy the one knee protocol. All they wanted was for him to pick out a cute ring and simply pop the question that would separate her from the girls. The ring puts a seal on your relationship and was selected by all as; the Most Awesome gift that would keep your Naija lady stuck on you.

That was supposed to be the last gift option, but at this point, I must say that most of the ladies I interviewed did not fall into the extravagant category and did not want the five gift options. So I decided to add an additional option;

0.0– LOVE AND LOYALTY: Did I hear you say; yeah right!  

Well, whether you choose to believe this option or not, some Naija ladies still want nothing but True Love and Care.

 

Ladies in this group were also single or had gotten the ring option without all the previously mentioned extravagant steps. The single ladies wanted  his undying love and attention while the married ladies needed; a great father for their kids and an attentive husband.

For these ladies, waking up every day in their man’s arms and being the only woman in his life was the best gift and a reason to stick around till death.  

A particular lady I interviewed gladly informed me that she loved receiving from her wealthy and caring man what other ladies would term “little gifts” and his loyalty. When I asked what she meant by little gifts, she smiled and said “I love that he helps around with chores and got me a thank you card"

The rest confessed that they loved receiving real flowers together with a wrapped romantic and not very expensive gift, funny T-shirts, hand crafted cards or jewellery, a trip to the cinema for a movie they had being craving for, picnic at the park or any gift that expressed their man's true feelings for them and showed that he was attentive to their needs. 

What mattered to these ladies was the love with which these gifts were given and the fact that he was there,  definitely not the Price Tag.