Gifts for your Man 2

1. Gifts Not Compulsory;

Okay before I get down to it, let me state emphatically that gift giving or buying IS NOT COMPULSORY.

So ladies, if you do not feel like buying a gift for or giving a wrapped package to that your better half, please DON’T!

2. Desire to Give But can't Afford it;

If you feel like giving but cannot afford it, I have a solution; take a picture of the gift and send it to him with a short message; “my dream gift for you!”Haha! Better still you could go shopping with him then cleverly get him to buy the gift for him! Do not forget to mention that you would have loved to get it for him but could not afford it. He will understand and appreciate you for being thoughtful.

3. Gift Hater;

If he is not a gift loving man; some men just do not like the idea of gifts, to them it’s a waste of their hard-earned money or they are always too busy to get you a gift for your special days. Girl, go on your knees and thank God for

saving you from the stress of gift hunting. Just sit back and put up your feet. Besides, life is too stressful so, why add another stress to your tight stress list?

4. Stingy/Tightfisted Man;

If he is the stingy, the tightfisted/ super glue type and you still love him enough to stick around, then you have four options to choose from;

i. Go out there and get that lovely dress, pumps, bracelet, whatever you have always wanted, tell him you have a surprise for him, dress up and don’t forget to ask him; “Honey, how do I look?”

ii. Take a Vacation. Spend your hard-earned money on you for once! enjoy yourself and make sure to send him a picture of you having Super fun with a message; “Honey, I miss you!” It might make him take the leap.

iii. Have you heard of alms giving? I call it my Heavenly Savings Account. The truth is; spending on him all the time while he finds it very hard to appreciate it or even get you a little gift is a waste of blessings. He is stingy and not less privileged! So girl, spend wisely. Open a Heavenly Savings Account this Season, buy gifts for the poor and they will not forget to sing a carol for you on Christmas day.

iv. Since Christmas is all about giving with love, in the spirit of the season you could buy him a tiny gift, wrap it if you feel up to it and tell him how you feel about his glued up hands. The talk and gift might work miracles, hopefully.

5. You Still Love Him;

If you do not fall within any of the above categories and you sincerely and deeply love your man with all his flaws. If you would love to appreciate him for taking care of you and the kids, for making your life complete and being a real man, then kindly stick around.

Trust me, our men were eager to tell the kind of gifts they want from their ladies and I am definitely going to spill...